Most online dating sites cater to never-married 20- and 30-somethings. We can help young singles, too, of course. But because our site specializes in conscious singles living a holistic lifestyle, we know many of you (us) are over 40, so we want to just have an intimate word with you for a moment.

You have probably already loved before ... and lost .... You know the joy of fresh, new love, you have been that starry-eyed young lover. You have experienced the idealism, the fantasy that "This is the one! Our love will last forever!" only to be disappointed. You may have some heart wounds, and yet, you have also gained much wisdom along the way. You understand how easy it can be to fall in love with the wrong person, and how hard the fall. This means that now, as a more mature adult, you have a deeper understanding of the importance of finding a RIGHT one, someone who is truly your match, someone who is emotionally healthy, understands his/her own feelings and needs and can communicate them in a respectful, clear manner, someone who has depth and is ready to cocreate a wonderful life together.

Someone with whom you can RISE in love...

You are OK being on your own. Content, even. Your life works for you. Part of you wonders whether it's really worth all that risk to love again, and yet, and yet ... some deeper part of you still longs for your soulmate. You know, deep down, that loving another human being with your whole heart, and being loved in return, being celebrated and supported for who you really are, would be the greatest treasure in life. As Meister Eckhart said, "The price of inaction is far greater than the cost of making a mistake."

It is worth opening your heart again, but you want to get it right this time. And we want you to, too.

We have you in mind, and in our hearts. We know that, as they say in Sex & Love Addicts Anonymous, "It takes a damn good relationship to be better than no relationship at all." This is why we have designed the portfolio questionnaire for SoulMates to help you pinpoint what really matters to you in a mate, and to really describe yourself in a much more meaningful way. So you - and your soulmate - can recognize each other at the soul level through the words and worlds painted in your profiles.

So get ready, beloved! Be loved ... Love with your soulmate is going to be even better than your wildest dreams and your grandest hopes. Welcome to SoulMates!