Am I Ready for Soulmate Love? Quiz

"We all must learn to give ourselves the love we want.
Then other people can love us and it feels satisfying
Because it is not filling a void.
It becomes love dancing with itself."

- Gay & Kathlyn Hendricks

There are times in our lives when we need to focus on ourselves and times when we’re genuinely ready for the commitment of loving relationship. This quiz will help you determine whether now is a good time for you to find your soulmate, and if not, how you can prepare for soulmate love.

For each question below, ask yourself and answer honestly:
“Does this sound like me – and the type of person I’d like as a partner?”

Am I Ready for Soulmate Love? Quiz

1 I don’t need a partner. I already enjoy a full life yet wish for a wonderful partner to share it with. My soulmate will be the "icing on the cake" of my already great life!

2 I’m not in a rush to find a partner but it would be great. I’m tired of lousy relationships and would rather be alone (all one) than settle for less just to settle down, anymore! I am done with pseudo-, deadend relationships, and I’m willing to wait or date for however long it takes. I am making the most of my time between relationships.

3 I am dedicated to personal growth, creativity, making a difference, and living lightly upon the Earth. I strive to live consciously and compassionately in all that I do.

4 I am emotionally, sexually and maritally available. Specifically, I am unmarried and not involved with anyone sexually or romantically (even a friend). I am willing to be less sexual, to run my creative sexual energy in other ways, and/or to satisfy my own needs until my right partner arrives. OR
I am in a committed relationship. I am not seeking to find new love, but simply wanting to deepen our connection to experience the greatest level of connection and harmony possible.

5 I am financially stable. Whatever my source of income, it generally meets or exceeds my expenses, and I feel good about what I do with my time and the contribution I make to the world. I work in my “right livelihood” or am moving towards doing so. I am creating the life of my dreams.

6 I desire a romantic relationship that is committed, heart-centered and joyful. I value honesty, monogamy, true intimacy and healthy communication. I have a good track record for all of these qualities in my past or present relationship(s).

7 I can honestly say that I unconditionally and deeply love myself. I know I am a lovable, valuable person and I know that the right person will appreciate and celebrate me, as I will him/her. I am open to receive and give love fully and joyfully with my right mate. My self-talk is 90% positive (or more).

8 Spirituality is important to me, and I regularly engage in some spiritual practice (prayer, meditation, ceremony, being in nature, yoga, service, community, etc.) I see relationship as a path to spiritual awakening and personal transformation.

9 I have close loving relationships with friends and family and intend to maintain these bonds even after my partner arrives. My soulmate will support me in this and will connect well with the people who are important to me. While I will certainly include my mate in my hobbies and social circle, I enjoy a balance between time with my mate, time with others and time with myself. (Or, if you are in relationship, I am managing to strike a good balance most of them time between …)

10 I am already in love – with life! I wake up smiling and happy more often than not.

11 I have overcome any addictions (or at least am in recovery) and strive to live my life in a conscious way that supports my radiant wellbeing as well as life on the planet, making healthy choices and getting high on life.

12 I like what I see when I look in the mirror. I believe I am lovable, attractive and worthy of loving touch, intimacy and lasting love.

13 I strongly believe a right soulmate exists for me on the planet right now, and that when we are ready and the time is right, we will find each other.

14 It’s been at least six months since my last breakup, and I feel pretty calm when I talk or think about my ex now. I feel like most of the “charge” is gone, and I really wish him/her well, and am really glad we’re not together anymore. (If you’re single: I’m ready to change my radar so I can attract a more appropriate match and really say “yes” to higher love.)


13-14 apply to you
Yes! You are ready to find your soulmate! (Or ready to bring your relationship to the soulmate, sacred partnership level.) While you realize that you are not “perfect” (whatever that is!), and you still have goals for personal improvement, you have already done a lot of work on yourself and are committed to a healthy, loving relationship to enhance your already wonderful life. If you're ready to find your soulmate, you may want to consider Law of Attraction coaching sessions with Sage and/or SoulMates Matchmaking to help you find a partner with a similar level of consciousness.

10-12 apply to you

"Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers
within yourself that you have built against it."
~ Rumi

You’re not quite ready yet, but getting close! You need to love yourself some more, heal, and clarify your desires. If you’re not in a relationship yet, that’s good because you can really use this time well to focus on rediscovering yourself and on your own creativity, right livelihood, spirituality, etc. You may want to consider some private coaching sessions with Sage to help you become more prepared for higher love. If you’re in relationship, some healing sessions or couples counseling/harmonization could be of benefit. Listen to your guidance on this.

9 or fewer and you said no to Questions 1, 2, 3, 4, 7, 9, 10, 11, 12 and/or 14
You are not quite ready to find your soulmate and would definitely do well to deepen self-love and healing first. If we try to “fast-forward” to finding our mate before we have done the necessary self-healing work, the relationship doesn’t work out. Please don’t invest your time, money or emotional energy into mate searching until you are more prepared for your soulmate. If you are married, get some individual and/or holistic relationship counseling, or, if you've already tried this with no success or your partner is not willing to do so, get individual counseling to help you make the choice that is best for you. An affair is not going to solve your problems. If you are in an unsatisfying sexual or romantic relationship, you need to find the clarity and inner strength to either improve the relationship or to let go and let God (the Universe) bring you a love that is much more joyous, beginning with the love of yourself and life. You need to take time to learn to love being with yourself, to discover your own needs, desires and to celebrate who you are. Healing, counseling and relationship coaching can give you the support and tools you need to prepare for love and become in love with life in the process.

9 or fewer and you said no to Question 5
We recommend you focus on career, prosperity and creativity first so that you will have a good sense of self when you do meet your mate.

9 or fewer and you said no to Questions 6 and/or 8
You may want to consider ways to find a partner or other arrangement that matches your own values more closely, such as a polyamorous or alternative loving community. SoulMates is specifically for people who value spirituality, monogamy, healthy communication and personal growth.

9 or fewer and you said no to Questions 7, 11, 12 and/or 13
You just need to shift your beliefs so you really believe, deep down, that you DESERVE and can ATTRACT your divine right soulmate. Law of Attraction methods will only work if your unconscious beliefs are (mostly) in alignment with your intention. Hypnotherapy is an excellent way to reprogram your beliefs.

Whether you are single and need to focus on yourself, single and ready to find your mate, or you're in a good relationship that you'd like to take higher and deeper - to sacred partnership - they key is to become your own soulmate first. The love we have been seeking has been within our own hearts, all along. When we are literally IN LOVE WITH LIFE, we both radiate and attract love. We cease needing a partner and, parodoxically, this is precisely when we can effectively attract and nurture lasting love together.

Two people who "fall in love" are under the influence of powerful chemicals which, research has shown, will influence their thoughts, feelings and behaviors for up to a year. To avoid being misled by physical attraction, neediness, or the brain chemicals of infatuation, it is essential that you love yourself and your life already, that you are very clear about what you desire in a mate, and that you are willing to be alone until you find it.

Every day, every moment can be filled with love, no matter who is loving us or not. When we live life in this way, when we set our intention for our ideal soulmate to find us in the perfect time, and when we take action steps that resonate with our hearts toward finding our soulmate, the spirit of love will infuse all we do, and we will find the love we seek.

"The most enlightened prayer isn't,
'Dear God, send me someone wonderful' but,
'Dear God, help me realize that I am someone wonderful.'"

~ Marianne Williamson

"It is not enough to stare up the steps. We must step up the stairs."
~ Vaclav Havel

"Even our material success comes from our ability to love and have compassion, comes from the capacity to experience joy and ecstasy and to share it with others."
~ Deepak Chopra



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Note: Sage’s schedule fills quickly and she often books 2 to 3 weeks out so the sooner you schedule, the shorter your wait will be.

If you consider how much time, money and effort you’ve invested into your career, your home, maybe even your health, vs. how much you’ve invested in cocreating a truly amazing lasting soulmate relationship, the choice becomes clear.

A Gallup poll recently revealed that, out of tens of thousands of Americans surveyed, when asked to indicate how happy they were with their marriage, in only a scant 3 PERCENT of marriages (!!!) did both husband and wife report being “very happy.” Don’t settle for less just to settle down!

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